So many things to so many people. Mostly it's about love, not hallmark cards or candy, ok maybe it's about chocolate. It's kind of a big deal to some, and others wish it weren't. If you are one that isn't looking forward to it, I say this, "I hope you have a fabulous day doing whatever your heart desires." We can always try and make it better for someone else. And sweetheart, if you're reading this no we cannot get another cat!